Introductory
Sometimes we make dramatic plans that are expected to bring happiness into our lives, whether it be a vacation, graduation orwedding.
But the simple pleasures in life are what we can count on to give us continuous joy. When we appreciate and 
enjoy the simple things, the gratitude we feel will extend to other areas as well. Here are some of the simplepleasures that are worth making an effort to experience often.
Freshly cut grass is enjoyable in every way. The smell and feel of it under your bare feet are fresh, and invigorate the senses. Try to experience this at leasta few times each year, as the weather allows it.
What a betterway to experience a simple pleasure for free? Give smiles not only to your friends, but also to randomstrangers you pass on the street.You will be amazed at how good it feels to see first the surprise of others, and then their own smile inreturn.
When you work out in a strenuous manner, you will get an endorphin rush as a reward. These natural, feel-good chemicals are sure to brighten yourday. Work out in the morning in order to use this endorphin rush to help yoube especially productive throughout the rest of your day.
Even if your favorite food is not especially healthy, allow yourself to have it every now and then. The feeling of your much-loved food will bring you a little boost of pleasure. Studies have shown that if you refrain from a particular food for a certain time, it will be even more enjoyable the nexttime you try it, so use this trick to make your favorite meal taste even better than usual
Some of us survive on our daily coffee or tea. Even when it is a daily habit, it can bring much joy. As you sip on your beverage of choice, take some quiet time to enjoyevery bit.
This is not only for kids. Put on some warm clothes and simply fall into the snow. Feeling silly about this will not ruin the experience, just embrace the feelingof innocent fun that making snow angels can bring.
Laughter is like medicine. Everyone should have an opportunity to laugh until it hurts at leastonce a day. Whether it is with a friend who could write comedy, or watching a good movie, take some time to laugh away your stress.
Getting a Massage
If you have never had a massage, give it a try. This hour of total relaxation will make your troubles feel as though they are melting away. Many individuals are evenentitled to massagesthrough employee benefits.
Walking in the Rain
Walking in the rain is one of life’s amazing simple pleasures. Dress warm, and go outside with or without an umbrella. Let the rain splash over your face as you stroll along, and be sure to jump in at least one puddle for old time’ssake.
Expensive fun is great, but can be hard to come by. Instead of waiting for your next vacation, indulgein one of these simplepleasures. By learningto appreciate the little things right next to you, you will find great fulfillment each and every day.
Money toBe Happy?
Chapter 1: Do You Need
As the saying goes, “Money can’t buy you happiness.” Or can it? Having a sufficient amount of money can certainly lower stress, but having an excess of it will not make you happierthan anyone else.
So, can money buy you happiness or not? Here are a few thoughtsto ponder on the subject.
Studies have shownthat yes, havingenough money to meet your needs and those of your family does bring happiness. People living in poverty are generally less happy than those whose needs are met. Being able to pay for your bills and having enough to get by financially will help you succeed in feelinghappy.
Having more money than you need, however, will not bring you extra happiness. Money and happiness are not proportional. Someone with enoughmoney to buy a large house and several cars will not necessarily have more happiness than another individual with exactly what they need.
There is stressthat goes alongwith having money.Whether you have a littleor a lot, you likely know about this stress.There is the stressof knowing you need to spend what you have wisely, as well as the fact that people with ulterior motivesare drawn to thosewho are financially wealthy.
It is not so much the amount of money that you make that ensures your happiness, but about what you are spending it on and where it is going on the way out. Thereare some principles for using moneythat can help you to feel more satisfied. Where you put your money and who receives it can make a difference as to whetheryou gained somethingby having had it.
Buying more things is not proven to make a person happy. Although investing in items that will last seems like a wise move, studies show that we tend to adjust to what we obtain.Having these things doesn’t continuebringing unlimited happiness.
We are more likely to have long-term happiness when money is spent on experiences which will give us lasting memories. Whether this means going on vacation by yourself or with your family, or making time to do something fun every now and then… be sure to create experiences rather than purchasing somethingthat will simply fade away over time.
Giving is one of the most satisfying things you can do with your money. Whether it is to charity or a friend inneed, find a way to give back and share what you have. This is a way to spend that will bring long-term personal rewards.The short answer is no; you do not need money to be happy. Money can be useful, however, to prevent stress that can diminish the happiness that you do have.No matter what amount of money you have, use these tips to help achieve the level of happiness you desire, and live a life filledwith joy.
Chapter 2: Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff
We have all heard that we shouldn’t sweat the small stuff. Letting oneself get stressed out over the little things in life is one of the biggest ways to bring unnecessary grief into life’s path.
We can avoid a lot of negative feelings, and even health problems, simplyby learning not to let the little thingsget to us.
When something small happens that makes you want to rage, compare the moment’s significance to everything else going on in your own life, and in the world around you. You may have spilled your cake batter on the floor an hour beforeyour guests are due to arrive. Are your friendsstill going to love you and enjoy the evening even if you don’t have a freshly baked cake for them? If so, maybe you should put your energy somewhere other than beratingyourself for this small mistake.
When something small threatens to destroy your attitude and positive outlook, think about the fact that everyone makes mistakes. Whether it is yourself or someone else who caused the situation that feels like a train wreck,keep in mind that mistakesare a normal part of life that happen to everyone. Don’t let one badmoment take you by surprise.
It can be hard to forgive someone else when it feels like they have brought you extra work and stress. When someone rear ends your vehicle, you maybe tempted to lashout at them verbally. However,stop and think about how it may feel to be in their situation. Don’t act and feel as though you have never made a mistake, but choose empathy.
Forgiving others can be a simple matter in comparison to forgiving ourselves. There are many moments that we treatourselves worse than we wouldever allow a friendto treat us.
When you are having a difficult time forgiving yourself, think of how you would handle a similar mistakemade by a good friend.Stop and think before bullyingyourself, and considerseeking professional help if you can’t stop a cascade of negative thoughtsevery time you fall shortof perfection.
We all have problems, and generally at the time, any problem seems big. Perception is not always the truth, though, and it is up to us to put oursituation into perspective so that we can properlydeal with whatevercomes our way.
When something negativehappens in your life, ask yourselfif it will matter in ten years. If it won’t, let it go. If someone gives you the middle finger in traffic, you may be tempted to lose your cool, but it is simply not worth it. Save your emotions for things that are life changing and deserve your full attention.
When something goes wrong, you have two choices. You can slip into a rage, or let it go. Making the choice not to sweat the small stuff will bring your life-changing happiness, and you will be thankful for your own shift in perspective.
Chapter 3: How Happy Are You?- Questions to Ask Yourself
A desire to be happy is something that almost everyone has incommon. But it is not always easy to create happiness, nor to decide whether you are happy once you feel you should be in this particular state of mind.
Every life will have ups and downs,and so it is helpfulif we have a gauge by whichto judge whether we have achieved happiness or not.
This is a tell-tale sign about your inner happiness. Do you wake up each morning ready to face the day, or do you feel anxious and fearful? It is difficult to be happy if you are startingoff each morningin a negative way.
Whether you are working, attending school, or doing something else… you should feel a sense of anticipation when you think about beingthere. There are certain things we must do, like pay the rent, so your decision to work may not be an option. You do, however, have an option as to where you work. If you don’t like it, change it.
The people you spend the majority of your time with are the people who will have the greatest influence on you. If they are bitter, discouraging and lack motivation, chances are that you eventually will become the same type of person. If your friends are not uplifting, find new ones. Spend your extra time with those who will cause your life to be more joyful, and will help you create positivememories that will bring long-term happiness.
A key component to happiness is liking and loving yourself for who you are. If you don’t, then you need to figure out why. Make necessary changes, and then choose to love yourself despite your flaws.
Happiness includes feeling confident and secure about your future. We live in uncertain times, but that doesn’t mean that we have to live every day in fear. Grow your confidence in small ways, and considercounselling if you feel more than occasional stress when you think about the future ahead.
Everyone has a life purpose. There is something about you that makes you a unique gift to the world. If you have not discovered this about yourself yet, your self-esteem will suffer, as will your happiness. There are many questionnaires and books dedicatedto discovering your lifepurpose.Consider investing your time to learn more and find what makes you feel most fulfilled in life.
Being happy is not a frivolous desire. It is important to know how you are wired and what it takes to be happy with yourselfand your life. By asking yourself these questions and then taking a moment to think about your answers, you will be well on your way to a life of true happiness.
Chapter 4: The Link BetweenFood
and Happiness
Did you know that food can greatly affect your mood, for better or for worse?
When it comes to happiness and every other area in your life, food has the capacity to harm or heal. By learning about what foods tochoose and avoid,you will be able to help your body and mind,and embrace happiness.
So you want to use what Mother Nature has to offer in order to boost your mood? Start off with looking for foods that are high in healthy fats. Our brains rely on these fats, such as omega-3fatty acids, and they do wondersfor mood and improving happiness by allowing nerve cells to communicate more efficiently.
Walnuts, pumpkin seedsand fish oil are a great way to consumethese. Omega-3 fatty acids have been proven to be as effective as commonantidepressant drugs in regards to depression.
Berries are another wonderful way to boost your happiness. They contain anthocyanins, which are helpful to your brain as they support its function. Oranges, raw peppers and kiwi are high in Vitamin C which battles stress. Leafy greensboost your folic acid intake, and even dark chocolateis known to be a positive mood enhancer. Bananas and dates are easily found foods that are known to affect serotonin levels positively.
Your mood and mental functionare also greatlyaffected by dehydration, so be sure to stay well-hydrated by consuming plenty of water.
Sugar is the number one food to avoid if you wish to be happy. Sugar sets you up for a quick, false surge of energy when you feel the sugar high, which is then followed by a crash.Sugar can also harm your immune system and triggerdepression.
Coffee has been known to lead to anxiety, which will also rob you of joy. Wheat prevents serotonin from being produced, therefore contributing to depression. Alcoholis linked with moodiness, and although some individuals feel temporarily euphoricafter consuming it, the feelinggenerally fades into negativity.
Vitamin C has been shown to reduce cortisol, which is the hormone that causes stress. Unless you are getting a substantial amount of this vitaminfrom your diet, a daily supplement is a good idea.
Because a folic acid deficiency has been linked to depression, you should consider taking a supplement. Omega-3 fatty acids and vitamin B12 are alsohelpful for a natural mood boost. Supplements that will help you control unhealthy cravings include vitamin B complex, Co-Enzyme Q10 and resveratrol.
Because food has such a big effect on your mood, you would be wise to utilize it to its full potential. Instead of just choosing your meal based on what you desire at the moment,turn your plate into a powerful weaponthat will fight depression and anxiety, and build and maintain your happiness.
You deserve the chance to feel joy, and by modifying your eating habits you can change your life for the better. Choose your mood by choosing your food, and see the difference it makes.
Chapter 5: Seven Mantras to Increase
Your Happiness
There are many ways you can increaseyour happiness, an
d severaltricks that don’t requiremuch preparation or effort.
Our words have power, and by repeating mantras to yourself throughout your day, you will find that feeling happy begins to come naturally to you. Hereare seven mantrasthat, when repeatedoften, can changeyour life.
These three words can help prevent you from falling into a slump of self- hatred. Too many individuals do not have respect for themselves and forget that they are amazing, beautiful and one of a kind. Repeat this mantra oftenso the words will come to youwhen you need them the most.
Gratefulness is a sure way to gain happiness. When you are grateful, you are making an effort to remind yourself of the good things in your life. In turn,this positive attitudeattracts even more good things.
One of life’s most important lessons is to love ourselves. If you feel as though you haven’t quite gotten to a point of full self-love and respect, then repeat these words until you do. Say them when you are pleased with yourself, as well as whenyou are angry and disappointed in yourself.
Believing that good things and positive situations are headed your way, will actually help them do so. Thinking of yourself as a magnet to everythingthat is amazing will draw those things to you. Your self-confidence and positivespirit attract what they put out, and you will seeyour life becomingenriched as you repeat this mantra often.
Even in the best circumstances, the wrong people will keep us from going far. Create a circleof friends who are hopeful and positive just as you are.Avoid drama, and repeat this mantra to yourself when you are tempted to get sucked into someone’s negative energy.
Believing in yourselfand having confidence in what you can achievewill take you far. When you know that you can do anything you set your mind to, you will find unlimited happiness in that knowledge. Speak these words when you are struggling to change your situation, and know that you have the power it takes to do so.
No matter how much money a personmakes or how much they accomplish, life will feel pointless and void without a sense of purpose. There are plentyof books written on the subject that can help you analyze your life and find out what your specific purpose is.
Think about the things you love and are drawn to, and what gives you your greatest feeling of satisfaction. You have something special to offer the world,and this mantra reminds you of that fact.
Our words hold much power, and mantras are a great way to set us on the path to happiness. When you use your words to bring positive things into your life, you will find happiness. Repeat these mantrasand find out what a difference they will make for you.
Chapter 6: Personality and Happiness
It appears that some people are just happier than others. It’s not always just the peoplewho have easy lives, either. Those who are happy seem to have certain factorsthat another individuals lack. One definite factor is personality type. How does it play into the matter of personal happiness? Here are a list of personality traitsand how they affect yourfeeling of well-being.
Those personality types who lean towards perfectionism in relation to themselves and others, have a tendencyto be less happy than those who are more accepting of various outcomes. Although a perfectionist will achieve happiness in a job well done, it will be limited due to their immediate focuson the next big project.
When you learn to enjoythe process ratherthan holding yourselfto a strict set of rules, your happiness will grow.
Dreamers tend to be happy. Although dreamers can often lean towards procrastination, which brings stress,there is alwayssomething to dreamabout again after the stress has passed.
If we are not born this way naturally, we can learn a lot from dreamers as we seek happiness in life. Think about what you want out of life and spend a little time each day enjoying the thought of that very thing, and you will see the joy that can be found in this simple exercise.
People whose personalities lean towards being organized have a lot going for them, but it is possible to have too much of a good thing even in this area.The importance is in balance. Be too focused on organization and you will miss the small detailsthat should be enjoyed along the way. By being too
disorganized, on the other hand, youwill experience the frustration of yourself and others when things do not go as planned.
Strike a happy medium, and choose to organize yourself just enoughto make thingswork more efficiently.
Positivity is one personality trait that absolutely affects one’s personal happiness. Some people are born with a tendencyto this trait, while others haveto strive not to live in negativity.
No matter what sideyou lean towards naturally,make choices that willcause you to react in a positivemanner and that will build your confidence in the process of life. You will find happiness comes to you naturally when you allow your energyto be transformed from negative to positive.
You may be an extrovert or an introvert, but whichever you are, you can choose to live in the moment. We only live our life through one time, and finding happiness includes being fully present for each and everystep of the journey.
Some people find this easier to do, and others have to make an effort. Whatever your natural tendency, make a choice to do everything whole- heartedly so that you will have no regrets and can experience deep happiness.
We can’t change our personalities, but we can learn from each other. People with different personalities and personality traits have a natural inclination both towards and away from happiness. Take the personality you have been given and then direct your energy into living a happy life in the best way possible.
Chapter 7: Why Living in the Moment Makes You Happier
We all know that living in the past can drag a person down, but why?And what about livingin the future?We need balance,but living in the moment is something we must focus on if we are to lead happy lives. Living in the moment has been shown to be the best way to become and stay happy. Here is why.
Almost every one of us has regretsabout something in our past, but there is nothing we can do to change it. Instead of wasting our moments and energy in lament over situations that are long gone and no longer in our control to change, we can use the energy to make our present situation better. Learn what you can from the past, and then move on.
Don’t worry about the future,because you cannot predictwhat it will bring. You can only prepare to a certain extent, and being fearful about what tomorrow holds will only cause stress that will contribute to health and mental problems.
Live in the moment and choose to make the present your focus. Instead of fearing what repercussions your choices will bring to your future, make decisionsbased on what is good in your life right now at this moment.This will reduce tendencies towards depression and fear.
When we think more about the past or the future than the present, we drift away from what is right in front of our eyes. Maybe your present involves a work project that demands your full attention and energy. Maybe your present involves small childrenwith runny noses who need lunch puton the table.
When you embrace your present fully, you will get more out of the life you have. You will finally be able to stop sabotaging your present joy with fear about what may come next, or the guilt of decisions that are now in the past.
Be thankful for the faces in front of you now, and for the opportunities that are knocking on your door at this very moment. The moments you learn to cherish will enhance your future with the warm memories you will carry there, and you will have no regrets over misplaced focus.
Living in the present is important. Having a balanced focus is important too. When you think about the future, make the plans that are necessary for you to enjoy that time later, because someday the future will be your "in the moment." Don’t neglect your planning for the future, but don’t let it consume your life in an unhealthy way. Balance is key, and will help you not to feel stress due to too muchfocus on one area.
Living in the moment is one of the greatest things you can do for yourself. Happiness is achieved when we choose to live and enjoy where we are rightnow, instead of pining away for anothertime and place.By utilizing the timeand the life you are given right here and now, you will know true
Chapter 8: Hormonesand Happiness
Actually, hormones play a big role in this feeling, and we are wise to learn about what factors they play in this area and what we can do to capitalize on them.
Hormones are specialchemical messengers that control most of the body’s processes. The endocrine glands create these special messengers and our body relieson them to function properly.
How we treat our bodies and the substances we surround ourselves with makes a difference in how these hormones are able to help us. By learningwhat they do and how we can assist them in doing their job, we will be closer to our goal of happiness.
There are several hormonesthat can boost one’s happiness. The main onesinclude serotonin, oxytocin and dopamine.
Serotonin has become quite well known in recent times. It is a neurotransmitter, which takes messages from one part of the brain to another. Serotonin is crucial in preventing depression and other mental illness,and problems occurwhen you have either a shortage of this hormoneor when it is unable to do itsjob.
Oxytocin is known as the "love hormone" and has a variety of jobs, whichinclude helping peopleimprove their socialskills and minimizing fear.
Dopamine is another neurotransmitter, and it is activated when a positive and unexpected circumstance happens - which is why it is known for its role in helpingthe brain learn aboutrewards.
Hormones need to maintain a fine balancein order to allow you to functionat optimum levels. Too much or too little of any hormone will cause short- and long-term problems health wise. Because our happiness is dependent on this, we are wise to do our best to find a healthy balance for all the hormones in our body, in order to create an environment that supports feeling good.
Some important ways to keep your hormones in good balance and working order are to get sufficient sleep each night,exercise regularly and eliminate toxins from your daily life. Minimize stress in your life as much as possible, and avoid birth controlpills if possible.
Food plays an important role in the balance of hormones. There are many foods that you should make a point of eating on a daily basis, and many youshould strive to avoid.
Foods and nutrients that help your body balance hormones and keep you happy include healthy fats such as those found in coconut oil, avocados, nuts and wild salmon. Vitamin D is an important supplement, as is magnesium. A sufficient amountof clean proteinsshould be eaten, as wellas plenty of vegetables.
Your hormones play an essential role in your feelings of happiness. Keeping them balanced and workingfor you properly is important in order to ensurefeelings of mental wellness. By following the guidelines above, you will be able to balance your hormones and live a life of happiness and satisfaction.
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